Love and Life
The beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly themselves, and not twists them with our own image–otherwise, we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them.
Love is when you take away the feeling, the passion and the romance, and you find out you still care for that person.
Love comes to those who still hope even though they’ve been disappointed, those who still believe even though they have been betrayed and those who still love even though they have been hurt before.
It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return. But what is the most painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let the person know how you feel.
Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they’ll love you back! Don’t expect love in return, just wait for it to grow in their hearts. But, if it doesn’t, be content it grows in yours.
There are things that you would love to hear, but don’t be sad that you can’t hear it from the person you want. Don’t be deaf to hear it from the person who says it with their heart.
When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die, you are smiling and everyone around you is crying.
When one door of happiness closes, another opens. But often, we look so long at the closed door that we don’t see the one that has just been opened for us.
Always put yourself in the other’s shoes. If you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the other person, too.
It takes a minute to have a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, a day to love someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.
爱与生命的诠释
爱的真谛是让我们爱的人成为他们自己，而不要用我们的意志去影响他们――否则的话，我们爱的只是我们自己的影子。
爱情是当同情、激情和浪漫统统消失以后，你发现自己依然难以忘却那个人。
爱情会光顾那些即使对方令其失望，却仍心中满怀希望的人；那些虽然遭遇背叛，却不放弃对爱的信念的人；那些虽然曾经受伤，却依然拥有爱心的人。
爱一个人却不被人爱是伤感的。但最痛苦的莫过于爱一个人而又没有勇气对他表白。
你深爱的人不一定爱你！爱情是不讲礼尚往来的，你只要能耐心等待爱的种子在对方心中生长，如果不能如愿，那就珍惜自己心中的那份爱吧！
你希望听到的并不一定从你爱的人嘴里说出，但不要就此伤悲；只要所言出自爱心，就不可以充耳不闻。
你出生只是在哭泣，而周围的人们在微笑；把握人生吧，这样你才会在临终之时微笑，而周围的人为你哭泣。
幸福之门常常是一扇关上了，另一扇就会打开。但我们总是长久注视着那扇已关闭的门，而没有看到另一扇为我们打开的门。
要总能设身处地地为别人着想。如果一双鞋你觉得夹脚，那别人也一定会感到痛苦的。
伤害一个人只需一分钟，喜欢上一个人可能要一个小时，爱上一个人得花一天的时间，而忘却一个人却要用一生的光阴。
（新东方专稿）
